Saturday, November 27, 2010

Preparing for the holidays

Well, it has been a busy week at the Hahn house.  Preparing the house for Christmas and bringing in the holiday with cheer and happiness.  Two trees are up and decorated working on the backroom tree and hopefully will get more accomplished before the 18th of December when Hahn-A-Days is happening.  That is a time when family and friends pop in for a bit to visit and add to the Christmas Spirit in our home.  I can't wait for it always is so nice to see family and friends!!

Zack is doing fair at school.  He has had a few rough days and the counselor called me worried about a comment he made to her.  He told her that once he is kicked out of this school, we will force him to go to Arkansas and live with his Mom.  That is so untrue, we have never told him that and where he came up with that comment we don't know.  We want him to live with us, to grow with us and most of all to be happy and safe.  He is such a special little boy who misses his Mom a lot, he knows if he stayed with her he would not be happy he has told us that...but that does not take away his pain of missing his Mom.  She is still writing letters, but we do not read them to him because he has had some emotional break downs and we do not want him to revert to being angry as he was last year.  It is tough, I can't ever imagine that feeling of being left behind and not seeing your Mom for almost two years.  She doesn't call at all and it is probably for the best...he has overcome a lot since she left and he has a long way to go. 

The Special Education Coordinator from Warren County had a meeting with us and she suggested we put Zack in a new school come January 2011.  It is for his speech and social behavior and deals with Autisum on a more extreme measure.  The school he is in right now is mostly for behavior issue children and doesn't focus on the Autistic child.  With the comment that he made to Ms. Heather, we are unsure if it would be a wise move to send him to the new school or not.  I feel it would be very very good for his speech and social but would he feel he failed at the school he is in right now?  Greg wants to wait until the fall next but I feel it would be more helpful this year...like I said it is a hard decision to make and what will be best for Zack.  Keep Zack and us in your prayers guiding us the right way...


Well I received a call from a friend telling me that she is worried about Jessica for she had text messaged her wishing her a happy holiday.  Chris (the man Jessica left with) called this friend back letting her know that he has no clue where Jessica is and if she would happen to hear from her, tell her to get with him about her junk.  WOW...what is going on, where is she at?  Is she back in Ohio?  Will she just show up at the house unexpectedly?  Did she have other children?  So many unanswered questions and so little information to go on.  I text messaged her old phone number but no call from the creep telling me he doesn't know where she is.  Why is this going on?  Where is she?  Is she okay?  I sure hope so but I don't want her around the kids...

On a lighter note...Christmas is only four weeks away...hope you are finding the Spirit within your heart to share with others.  It is going to be a glorious time in our lives...

Jesus is the reason for this glorious time!!  Celebrate His Birth...

Hugs!!

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